Fear is the ONLY thing that keeps us from doing and having what we want and what we need. We could be the most skilled race car driver, dirt bike rider, football player, golfer or even intelligent enough to have a lot of money, but if we have a fear, no matter how small we cannot achieve being the best, having what we want or in many cases what we need. If you are a dirt bike rider or any of the above and find yourself never coming in first, but you know you are the most skilled or the smartest at what you do, then you have some type of fear that is keeping you from achieving that first place trophy, it is that simple, you have some type of fear programmed into your subconscious mind.
Your not coming in first is an unwanted behavior and under the unwanted behavior is a negative feeling. The feeling that is lying under the unwanted behavior (which is keeping you from winning) is not fear, anxiety or panic, those feelings are there to keep you away from feel the negative feeling that lies under the unwanted behavior. The fear, anxiety and panic are just the protection feelings that protects you from feeling the negative feeling which are usually hurtful or painful feelings.
Fear, anxiety and panic are the feelings that are protecting you from getting hurt again either physically or emotionally. Your conscious mind might be saying, you have the talent, you are smart and you have the skills to be the best in your field and it knows that because it lives in your real world. It talks to you in thoughts which tells you what you should do based on what you want and what it sees going on in your reality world. The subconscious mind talks to us in feelings which is power and that feeling power drives us and since the conscious mind talks to us in thoughts it has no power. The reason we don?t win even though the conscious mind wants to win and knows we can win is because thoughts have no power and cannot over ride our inner negative fear feelings.
People who have fears of having a lot of money are people who could have a fear of not deserving (if you feel you don?t deserve you certainly will not allow yourself to have a lot of money), not good enough (if you feel you are not good enough it is almost impossible for you to have a lot of money because you don?t feel you are good enough to have it a lot of money) and a fear that there is not enough (if you have a fear that there is not enough then you will never allow yourself to have enough or more then what you think is enough if you get to much you will sabatoge it). If you find yourself always struggling to survive because you don?t have enough money then you have some kind of fear about having money that is getting in the way of your having money.
You are exactly where you are supposed to be in life based on the feelings you programmed into your subconscious mind, mostly from childhood, which have now become fears when we become an adult. You can?t be any further in your life or any place else in your life.
If your income and success is created from being in the sports world and you are not number ONE or making the MONEY and you consciously know you are capable of making being the best or having a lot of money then you have some type of fear that is blocking you from achieving this.
– Lawrence I. Miller
Certified Hypnotherapist
Can be reached at (800) 899-3155.
www.hypnosiscentersoca.net
Tuesday, July 3, 2007
Thursday, June 28, 2007
You Have the Power
If you have the desire, You have the power.
Your dreams will come true, if you have the desire to pursue them.
You must believe in yourself.
Know in your heart, that you can do the job that you've set out to do.
You're never given a wish without also being given the power to make it come true.
The achievement of your goal is assured the moment you commit yourself to it.
Everything is possible, if you believe it's possible.
It's your mind that sets your limits.
What you envision you can do.
Start thinking of yourself as a success and success will follow.
Success is a state of mind.
You can, because you think you can.
Your dreams will come true, if you have the desire to pursue them.
You must believe in yourself.
Know in your heart, that you can do the job that you've set out to do.
You're never given a wish without also being given the power to make it come true.
The achievement of your goal is assured the moment you commit yourself to it.
Everything is possible, if you believe it's possible.
It's your mind that sets your limits.
What you envision you can do.
Start thinking of yourself as a success and success will follow.
Success is a state of mind.
You can, because you think you can.
Wednesday, June 20, 2007
Value of Misery
Most people are brought to this work by some amount of what they consider to be misery in their lives. Their lives are just not going the way they think they should be going and they are unhappy, angry, frustrated or disappointed about that. Nothing they do changes the situation and outcome. The value of misery is that, without that misery, most of us would never do the very challenging work of going inside, looking at and changing our own programming. Yet without some form of going inside work, personal growth is limited, our fullest potentials never reached. While pain and misery are not the only forces that can motivate us to go inside and heal our issues, they are certainly among the most prevalent. Pain (emotional or physical) has the additional value of urgently demanding our attention to a situation -- right here, right now. The recollection of pain can also be a tremendous motivator.
Misery and pain serve by bringing us to the question, Why? How many of us, in truth, would ask why -- much less go exploring our internal world -- without the motivating factor of misery or pain? Since issues and protection mechanisms and beliefs always cause us some pain at some point in our lives, they can be considered to contribute to the cycle of personal growth. Issues and protection mechanisms call our attention to internal programming that needs to be corrected (healed). While there are other motivating forces (such as a quest for God/Spirituality) which may also lead to internal exploration, the search for relief from misery is usually the reason most people pursue an internal healing path in the first place.
By Lawrence I. Miller
Hypnosis Center
www.hypnosiscentersoca.net
Misery and pain serve by bringing us to the question, Why? How many of us, in truth, would ask why -- much less go exploring our internal world -- without the motivating factor of misery or pain? Since issues and protection mechanisms and beliefs always cause us some pain at some point in our lives, they can be considered to contribute to the cycle of personal growth. Issues and protection mechanisms call our attention to internal programming that needs to be corrected (healed). While there are other motivating forces (such as a quest for God/Spirituality) which may also lead to internal exploration, the search for relief from misery is usually the reason most people pursue an internal healing path in the first place.
By Lawrence I. Miller
Hypnosis Center
www.hypnosiscentersoca.net
Tuesday, June 12, 2007
Commitments Equals Reality
Desire is the starting point of all acheivement.
Your desires(what you would like to have in your life) are the precursors (beginning)of the things which you are capable of doing or having.
These desires can in time externalize themselves into concrete fact.
Your intense anticipation itself will transform your possibilities into reality.
Weak desires will bring you weak results,
just as a small fire makes a small amount of heat.
If you just care enough to for any result, you will almost certainly attain it.
Nothing has more strength than dire necessity.
The acheivment of your goal is assured the moment you commit yourself to it.
If you have the will, you'll find a way.
By Max Seingart
Your desires(what you would like to have in your life) are the precursors (beginning)of the things which you are capable of doing or having.
These desires can in time externalize themselves into concrete fact.
Your intense anticipation itself will transform your possibilities into reality.
Weak desires will bring you weak results,
just as a small fire makes a small amount of heat.
If you just care enough to for any result, you will almost certainly attain it.
Nothing has more strength than dire necessity.
The acheivment of your goal is assured the moment you commit yourself to it.
If you have the will, you'll find a way.
By Max Seingart
Friday, May 25, 2007
One Pedal at a Time
Just got off the phone with Kathy Pruitt (way cool!). This girl rocks in more ways than one!
At the age of 16 she won her first Jr. World Championship!
She is back in Jersey to compete in the US Open of Mountain Biking. It takes place at Diablo Free Ride Park, one of coolest places to ride!
Wishing her a repeat win of her event!
Aside from winning all the time, Kathy is one of the most inspiring people I have ever met!
At 24, she has wisdom beyond her young age.
I was speaking to her about challenges that people face on a daily basis, along with life changing events that happen (even to good people), and how people respond and cope with them.
And without getting all philosophical on me she simply and calmly said "One step at a time".
It couldn't get any simpler than that! I know she was smiling when she said that!
Simply take what ever event or challenge you are having (or imagine you are going to have) and make it about now! "This moment" and at this moment, you alone have the Power to make a Choice of what to do! And what choices you make determine your outcome. Yes, it is that simple! If you don't like your outcome, choose again! You have the power of choice! No one can take that away from you, and if there is anything you want to own in your life, it is that!
Besides it is free!
Anything you do is a metaphor for your life.
When you learned to ride a bike, it was one pedal at a time. The same as if you are racing and your body wants to quit, you can focus on one pedal at a time.
So when it seems like life is throwing you a challenge and you can't see your way out, just focus on the moment. Be grateful for what you already have, feel the breeze or the warm sun, and start from that point forward one step at a time!
I owe this post to Kathy Pruitt for reminding me to take it one step at time and focusing on the moment.
Please take the time to meet Kathy. It could change your life!
Thanks Kathy!
At the age of 16 she won her first Jr. World Championship!
She is back in Jersey to compete in the US Open of Mountain Biking. It takes place at Diablo Free Ride Park, one of coolest places to ride!
Wishing her a repeat win of her event!
Aside from winning all the time, Kathy is one of the most inspiring people I have ever met!
At 24, she has wisdom beyond her young age.
I was speaking to her about challenges that people face on a daily basis, along with life changing events that happen (even to good people), and how people respond and cope with them.
And without getting all philosophical on me she simply and calmly said "One step at a time".
It couldn't get any simpler than that! I know she was smiling when she said that!
Simply take what ever event or challenge you are having (or imagine you are going to have) and make it about now! "This moment" and at this moment, you alone have the Power to make a Choice of what to do! And what choices you make determine your outcome. Yes, it is that simple! If you don't like your outcome, choose again! You have the power of choice! No one can take that away from you, and if there is anything you want to own in your life, it is that!
Besides it is free!
Anything you do is a metaphor for your life.
When you learned to ride a bike, it was one pedal at a time. The same as if you are racing and your body wants to quit, you can focus on one pedal at a time.
So when it seems like life is throwing you a challenge and you can't see your way out, just focus on the moment. Be grateful for what you already have, feel the breeze or the warm sun, and start from that point forward one step at a time!
I owe this post to Kathy Pruitt for reminding me to take it one step at time and focusing on the moment.
Please take the time to meet Kathy. It could change your life!
Thanks Kathy!
Tuesday, May 22, 2007
Living The Life
Inspired by Jeff G. Holt of DLX
PRO MotivAction asks...
Are you doing what you love? Do you love what you are doing? If not, then why not?
What is holding you back? Are you "Living theLife"?
We could play this game all day long. However it wouldn't serve any of us.
PRO MotivAction is something that might! It's all up to you!
PRO MotivAction is an elite group of extreme athletes that have succeeded against all odds in pursuing and reaching their dreams! Each and every one of them have had challenges in their lives perhaps very similar to the ones that you are having now. Yet they made it through and are now "Living the Life" of their dreams.
Designed for the youth of today, Pro MotivAction brings to you, your favorite athletes that help you bust through the blocks that are holding you back from pursuing your passions!
What do Ronnie Faisst, Eric Carter, Robert Herber, Kathy Pruitt,
Shonny Vanlandingham, Dale Holmes, (& more) have in common?
Yes, they have won Gold Medals, World and National titles and countless other awards!
But the coolest thing they have in common is that they are willing to personally share with you what they went through and what it took to get where they are now. Motivating you to take Action. To get you off your butt and start taking the steps to "Living the Life" you want!
A common motto is: "If you do what you love, you will never work a day in your life "
So how do you want to live your life?
Stay tuned for an event near you or email us now to request an event.
PRO MotivAction asks...
Are you doing what you love? Do you love what you are doing? If not, then why not?
What is holding you back? Are you "Living theLife"?
We could play this game all day long. However it wouldn't serve any of us.
PRO MotivAction is something that might! It's all up to you!
PRO MotivAction is an elite group of extreme athletes that have succeeded against all odds in pursuing and reaching their dreams! Each and every one of them have had challenges in their lives perhaps very similar to the ones that you are having now. Yet they made it through and are now "Living the Life" of their dreams.
Designed for the youth of today, Pro MotivAction brings to you, your favorite athletes that help you bust through the blocks that are holding you back from pursuing your passions!
What do Ronnie Faisst, Eric Carter, Robert Herber, Kathy Pruitt,
Shonny Vanlandingham, Dale Holmes, (& more) have in common?
Yes, they have won Gold Medals, World and National titles and countless other awards!
But the coolest thing they have in common is that they are willing to personally share with you what they went through and what it took to get where they are now. Motivating you to take Action. To get you off your butt and start taking the steps to "Living the Life" you want!
A common motto is: "If you do what you love, you will never work a day in your life "
So how do you want to live your life?
Stay tuned for an event near you or email us now to request an event.
Tuesday, May 15, 2007
PRO MotivAction Sets the Stage for "Following Your Dreams"
Get motivated into action by top athletes from around the globe. PRO MotivAction is a unique motivational speaking group, created by Lorenzo Diaz with the help of Robert Herber and encouragement of Ronnie Faisst of Metal Mulisha, that caters to young adults, inspiring them to follow their dreams.
Even against all odds, athletes like Ronnie Faisst, Eric Carter, Dale Holmes, and so many more, have achieved their dreams of "working" in their chosen sport. Their life stories inspire even "fence-sitters" to make a choice about their lives and move forward to attaining what it is that they really want in life.
Sponsored by some of the leading industries in sports, these athletes are coming to a city near you. These PROs will motivate you to take action with your life. Watch for PRO MotivAction ads and posts for the next inspirational event. And get to your dreams on fast forward!
Even against all odds, athletes like Ronnie Faisst, Eric Carter, Dale Holmes, and so many more, have achieved their dreams of "working" in their chosen sport. Their life stories inspire even "fence-sitters" to make a choice about their lives and move forward to attaining what it is that they really want in life.
Sponsored by some of the leading industries in sports, these athletes are coming to a city near you. These PROs will motivate you to take action with your life. Watch for PRO MotivAction ads and posts for the next inspirational event. And get to your dreams on fast forward!
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